Life Can Be Deliciously Sweet
Funny how life can be sometimes. Just when you think you're stucked with something for the rest of your life, miracle happens and there it is, a window of opportunities, open in front of you, with options that you can never imagine will be there for you to choose from.
It's just that, sometimes when you have already made up your mind, then a more wonderful thing appears in front of you, making you cringe and think back about the decision that you have already made.
This is the luxury that can only happen to some people, and I guess I am very very lucky if this were to happen to me.
Dont get it?
A friend of mine broken up with her boyfriend quite some time ago. She thought her world would end there. Not like she wanted to commit suicide or anything. She just didnt believe that she'll be lucky enough to be in a relationship again. But then, a guy started to show his interest towards her. Let's call this guy Guy A. He was very sensitive to her needs and showed her attention that she never get from her ex-bf. Basically, Guy A has everything that her ex-bf doesnt. So she starts to go out with Guy A.
In the meantime, some other guys also started to give her hints that they were kinda interested in her. One of them is her colleague, let's call him Guy B. She always thought Guy B is cute and has all the characteristics she's looking for in a man, well, physically la. He's tall, handsome, and dress well too. But she had never imagined that Guy B would be interested in her, since she heard from other colleagues that he has a girlfriend.
So now she is torned between Guy A and Guy B. She likes Guy A because of the attention that she get from him, and she likes Guy B because she is intimidated by him, you know, the kind of feeling that you get when you're attracted to someone but dont want to do anything about it because you're afraid he might not feel the same way towards you. She thinks what she have with Guy A is only infatuation, but she is not sure.
So what do you think? Care to comment anyone?
It's just that, sometimes when you have already made up your mind, then a more wonderful thing appears in front of you, making you cringe and think back about the decision that you have already made.
This is the luxury that can only happen to some people, and I guess I am very very lucky if this were to happen to me.
Dont get it?
A friend of mine broken up with her boyfriend quite some time ago. She thought her world would end there. Not like she wanted to commit suicide or anything. She just didnt believe that she'll be lucky enough to be in a relationship again. But then, a guy started to show his interest towards her. Let's call this guy Guy A. He was very sensitive to her needs and showed her attention that she never get from her ex-bf. Basically, Guy A has everything that her ex-bf doesnt. So she starts to go out with Guy A.
In the meantime, some other guys also started to give her hints that they were kinda interested in her. One of them is her colleague, let's call him Guy B. She always thought Guy B is cute and has all the characteristics she's looking for in a man, well, physically la. He's tall, handsome, and dress well too. But she had never imagined that Guy B would be interested in her, since she heard from other colleagues that he has a girlfriend.
So now she is torned between Guy A and Guy B. She likes Guy A because of the attention that she get from him, and she likes Guy B because she is intimidated by him, you know, the kind of feeling that you get when you're attracted to someone but dont want to do anything about it because you're afraid he might not feel the same way towards you. She thinks what she have with Guy A is only infatuation, but she is not sure.
So what do you think? Care to comment anyone?
magically charmed by whitewitch at 8:00 AM
2 Comments:
Well first of all, how come when we talk about anonymous person, we always name them person A, B and so on..... Sometimes I wonder from where we all picked up this habit, most probably from reading other people's problem in magazines and papers. It would be really interesting if we could come up with cretive naming like... I have a friend, let say her name is Jennifer Aniston, and her ex-bf, lets name him Brad Pitt, and she found a new guy, lets say his name is Justin Timberlake..... It would be easier for us to keep track.. ;)
Anyway back to your friend's problem. I guess she is lucky that she found so many suitors so fast. But i guess she have to carefull also, since she just break off, make sure other guys are not taking advantage of her vulnerable position.
p/s: I am happily married for 3yrs+ and I still don't understand women! Mysterious being indeed!
or it could be that your friend, unknowingly is just seeking for a rebound relationship. She may not know it now, but she will realise it soon.
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